The word “mistake” is derived from an old archery term which simply means “missed the mark” or my definition a “miss-take”!
In today’s frenetic world a “mistake” seems to carry with it a certain dramatic negative stigma which often has little or no direct correlation to the action or lack of action that the label has been attributed to. Sure there a small mistakes and big mistakes. The consequences of those mistakes can vary markedly yet most of our so-called mistakes are on a smaller scale.
At the end of the day we are all human and as the old saying goes “to err is human, to forgive is divine”.
Yet if you see your mistakes as failures then you are more likely to over dramatise them. They become bigger than they really are and then start to take on a life of their own as they impact on your self-esteem and self-belief. Continue reading